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Recently
while conducting a Self Development Training Program in a company, I was
discussing ideas about the practice in our lives, of absolute integrity,
authenticity, honesty and thinking bigger than ourselves. As is my way I was
narrating some beautiful stories to embed these thoughts among the
participants. One participant said "sir your stories won’t work, we don’t
do things this way out here". I was quite appalled to say the least. Here
was a person, so tight in his comfort zones, that he refused to even think
about what was being said. So I narrated Pavlov’s story about the 5 monkeys.
Still there was no change in his response. I realized that this gentleman was
not able to piece together the real essence or the deep truth which was being
narrated and discussed. Well I will handle that on another day, but I thought I
would share with you my thoughts on stories.
So here is
a story for all of us.
The seeker of truth
After
years of searching, the seeker was told to go to a cave, in which he would find
a well. 'Ask the well what is truth', he was advised, 'and the well will reveal
it to you'. Having found the well, the seeker asked that most fundamental
question. And from the depths came the answer, 'Go to the village crossroad:
there you shall find what you are seeking'.
Full of
hope and anticipation the man ran to the crossroad to find only three rather
uninteresting shops. One shop was selling pieces of metal, another sold wood,
and the third had thin wires were for sale. Nothing and no one there
seemed to have much to do with the revelation of truth.
Disappointed,
the seeker returned to the well to demand an explanation, but he was told, 'You
will understand in the future.' When the man protested, all he got in return
were the echoes of his own shouts. Indignant for having been made a fool of -
or so he thought at the time - the seeker continued his wanderings in search of
truth. As years went by, the memory of his experience at the well gradually
faded until one night, while he was walking in the moonlight, the sound of
sitar music caught his attention. It was wonderful music and it was played with
great mastery and inspiration.
Profoundly
moved, the truth seeker felt drawn towards the player. He looked at the fingers
dancing over the strings. He became aware of the sitar itself. And then
suddenly he exploded in a cry of joyous recognition: the sitar was made out of
wires and pieces of metal and wood just like those he had once seen in the
three stores and had thought it to be without any particular significance.
At last he
understood the message of the well: we have already been given everything we
need: our task is to assemble and use it in the appropriate way. Nothing is
meaningful so long as we perceive only separate fragments and that too through
our comfort zones or the lenses of our mind. But as soon as the fragments come
together into a synthesis, a new entity emerges, whose nature we could not have
foreseen by considering the fragments alone.
Therefore
my friends always be the seekers of truth. If we do that, we will succeed in
life and will ultimately find joyfulness in our being.
Have a
wonderful week ahead !!!!
Ajay
"Human beings are meaning-seeking creatures; we crave
narratives that have a beginning and an end - something that we rarely
encounter in everyday life. Stories give coherence to the confusion of our
experience."
Author: Karen Armstrong
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